Balance was such a difficult lesson. I was still adjusting/learning? Learning to balance between letting go and cherishing?
It had drawn to me before... The more you cherished and treasured someone/something, you tended to hold on more tightly... The problem was the more tightly you held onto someone, the more likely you were going to suffocate them. Relationships had died in such ways because people became overwhelmed.
Of course, you cannot just let them be completely? People might feel taken for granted?
Balance was such a difficult lesson...