Hahaha... Had a long chat with Sara today. Then took a long distance bus back to digest all the stuffs and think things through. I was nearly dying from hunger by the time I reached home. Hahaha... Serves me right.
Anyway, this chat had been meaningful to me. Had some amount of insights... Hahaha... Like I told Mabel, letting nature runs its own course is still the best thing to do. I am not being passive. Just that, things are more/only useful/meaningful when they are revealed at the ripe time... Otherwise, you might make matter worse...
I guess I still needs lots of polishing in this area.